A nighttime ramble--
Sometimes, people are just ridiculously stupid. Oftentimes this stupidity is induced by the sinister tentacles of social media, or rather, electronic media...the fast food for our brain in the 21st century. And its long-term effect is like that of eating a Big Mac meal every night.
As I near that half-century milestone in the next few years, I have come to realize that three words are all that matter: Are you happy?
These are the words said to me by my father over the phone when I told him I was engaged 26 years ago.
Him: Are you happy?
Me: Yes, I am.
Him: Then that's all that matters. Did your train stop in...
And the conversation strolled on.
I now realize the power of that litmus test.
I have added flavor to it over the years. When worrying about finances at 11 PM, I embraced the phrase, "It's [insert time here]. The bank is not open. There is nothing you can do about it now. Quit worrying."
To my family members who have done various things to automobiles over the years, my response has been, "Were you hospitalized? Did you hurt anyone else? No? Then keep perspective. Calm down."
We have before us a glut of information. We hear from media outlets that are trying to break a story before checking their sources. We read opinions of our "friends" who might not think as we do. We "converse," and then ask ourselves whose mind we are really changing by even commenting. People "tweet" pithy remarks, like writing graffiti on a wall. And I have one question. Do these things make you happy? Sometimes yes, most times no.
My soul is interwoven with a sense of righteous indignation. Trust me. I get it. But I also know what it feels like to have torn my soul into so many pieces that I don't have anything left with which to fight the good fight. I must now be choosier about that fight.
Enter the change of American President. Wow. In my lifetime, there's been Nixon, Ford, Carter, Reagan, Bush 1, Clinton, Bush 2, Obama, and now Trump. People, we have been through this before. No one human being will ever be perfect in that position. And I am a chick in Central Illinois on my computer at almost midnight. Do you really think any of this "discourse" will make a difference?
My answer: No. We are just pissing each other off. Here's my action plan.
Pray | For those with whom I agree and disagree as well as the President-elect and his crew. I did not do this enough during the Obama administration's 8 years. I think it could have made those 8 years less contentious for me.
Love | One another. Everyone. Especially the seemingly unlovable.
Respect | Everyone. Because none of us is really superior to the other. We may think we are, but that's not the way we were fashioned.
Discuss Issues | I am irritated by the presentation--the brand-- our President-Elect represents. That has muddied my thoughts. I want to stick to issues instead of getting lost in persona.
Embrace | I get this day. Maybe not even the day. I get this minute. What am I doing with it? Is what I am doing making me happy?
[end of ramble]